Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Tip Top Tuesday: The Men From The Past Refuse To Stay There

***My girl Top is unique and one-of-a-kind. This makes the story of her love life especially interesting. Just when you think you've got her figured, she makes an unexpected move. She's my career-minded friend who's always focused on self-improvement. She's also super-independent yet a closet nurturer. Read and learn how to be fabulous.***

Quick Recap [My last post about Top was back in early January. I was talking about how eventually every guy screws up and declares he wants something Top doesn't want. Something she always and consistently says she doesn't want from the outset of any involvement. They want a relationship. She doesn't. She had vague plans of being in the right situation to meet a man who could actually give her what she wanted.]Read Tip Top Tuesday posts.

Since that time, she hasn't yet met this man. How could she? With the weather New York has been having, I'm considering it a feat for anyone to even leave their house, let alone meet a potential man.

But in spite of the weather, something interesting has happened recently. A guy from long-distance (i.e, not affected by NYC weather) has resurfaced with designs on Top.

Who is the guys I'm talking about? I've called him CG (short for college guy) in this blog before. You can read about his brief time in Top's life here.

This is a guy who Top describes as a true Southern-type guy. He's pretty traditional. He wants to be married. By age 30. And he just turned 28.

Anyone who knows Top knows that is a recipe for disaster. There will be nothing he can do that will make her feel at ease. She will always think he's plotting on her.

Right now, she feels like he's just changing his tactics to try and appeal to what he thinks she wants.

He's trying to figure out how they can spend time together. He has suggested coming to NYC, her visiting him in NC, or even them meeting up in Baltimore for a concert.

Now she's trying to figure out how to let him know she's just not that into him.

She's also confused as to how he came to the conclusion that they weren't done and still had potential left to pursue.

If you read the old CG posts, you know their last interaction was back in September. But yet, here he is again.

I guess we'll see what happens between now and next week.

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